We often hear that modesty decorates a person. But, unfortunately, very often, not virtue is hidden behind this modesty, but a person’s underestimated self -esteem. People just hide their complexes for modesty, constantly in the shadow of their uncertainty.
Is there any harm from low self -esteem? What to do with it? How to get rid of the habit of underestimating your abilities? In this article, read about how to increase self -esteem and become a successful person, because there is nothing wrong with being proud of your skills.
Very strongly understated self -esteem interferes in building a career. Especially when looking for a job. In this case, a potential employer has a lot of doubts whether the candidate can confidently fulfill his duties, take responsibility or make an important decision. Undetered self -esteem will never allow a person to receive a decent material reward for work and/or climb the career ladder.
How to raise your self -esteem? Our article offers your attention 12 tips how to do it.
1. Stop comparing yourself with others. Because there are always people who will have something better than you, but also have those who do it worse.
2. Stop scolding yourself for everything. You will never increase your self -esteem if you recall your mistakes over and over again, reminding yourself of failures. Whatever you talk about (appearance, career, family, finances), say this with a positive shade.
3. Learn to accept compliments. When you answer them “nothing special”, you have low self -esteem, since you consider yourself unworthy of praise.
4. Repeat positive affirmations more often, for example, “I am very attractive”, “I love myself”, “I am talented”, etc. p. Then your underestimated self -esteem will slowly begin to disappear.
5. Check out the information that is aimed at increasing self -esteem (books, seminars, programs, etc. p.)
6. Communicate with self -confident and positive people, with them your low self -esteem will not look so terrible.
7. Make a list of your achievements for yourself and regularly read it.
8. Make a list of your positive qualities, at least from 20 positions. And also read it more often.
9. Share more with other, not only material benefits, but also good deeds, advice and help. When you help others, you feel necessary and valuable, from this your low self -esteem fades into the background.
10. Try to do the cases that you like. Your self -esteem is growing when you are busy with the work that you like.
11. Live as you yourself want. If you will make decisions on the advice of friends or relatives contrary to your desires, then your low self -esteem will only increase.
12. Start raising self -esteem right now. If you sit and suffer, but inactive, then you will never be able to raise your self -esteem.